What the heck are you talking about?
Anyways, we're all entitled to our opinion on this situation but to me, my concern are the improperly stored weapons. Regardless of the marital situation, when kids are nearby there is no excuse for this. She should at least obtain trigger guards or cable the breech....maybe the OP can help with that.
I think storage laws are not only stupid but unconstitutional. So the storage issue is a non starter for me. Obviously, in MA, it's illegal. Don't let cops search your home. So, to my mind, the real and only issue is the wife being full on moonbat about the guns and further, willing to endanger her kids by snitching.