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Need some prayers please!

Update!

Good news first... (not that there is really any bad news)

Kim is doing GREAT! The operation was a success! [smile]

Her doctor said that everything went as expected, he is fairly confident that he was able to get the entire tumor out, and there were no complications! [banana]

What a LONG day! Firs of all, neither of us could sleep last night. So we ended up staying up late and drinking. We didn't actually fall asleep until sometime around 2am. Our day started around 7am getting up and getting ready to get to the hospital, get the dog off to puppy school, getting her things together etc.

Her surgery was scheduled for 1:30pm and we were told to be there 2 hours prior. So like good kids, we got to the hospital around 11am, and she went through the admitting process. Neither of us had had anything to eat, her because she wasn't allowed, and me because I would feel like a complete ASS if I ate in front of her.

After admitting, we were brought over to a room that has TV's, books to read, magazines, computers with internet access (they were always taken) free coffee, and snacks. We waited, and waited, and waited, then we waited some more. The finally called us in to go down to pre-op, and then we waited some more.

By the time the finally took her into the OR, it was almost 4pm. I went and was finally able to get something to eat. After I stuffed some food down my throat, and went for a little walk, I went back to the waiting room, and asked if there was any progress. At 5pm they were still a few minutes away from actually making the incision.

At 7 I checked again, and they said that they had just completed the procedure, and that the doctor would either come up to talk to me, or that they would let me know what phone to pick up for him to talk to me. About 10 minutes later, my cell phone rang, and it was the doctor. He told me that everything was fine, and that she was awake and moving.

After making my 10,000 phone calls I went up to the ICU to see her. She was groggy of course, but opened here eyes, and smiled at me. We didn't stay very long, because she was in and out of it, and knew that she needed to sleep. Her mother and father were with me, and that helped my sanity for sure! As we were leaving we took turns kissing her on the cheek, and her mom started to giggle when I was kissing her.

Apparently, as I kissed her and whispered to her that I loved her (even though she was out) her heart rate started to go up. It made her mom laugh, and let her know that her baby was going to be all right.

We came back to my house, and they dropped me off. I climbed into my truck and made my way over to my mom's house who picked up my dog for me today at puppy school. Apparently Sadie has been harassing my mom's birds and cat all evening long. So, she's passed out at my feet, as I write to let you all know the good news.

I sit here tonight, tired from a long day. I am drinking a beer, which I raise to all of you. You people are THE BEST!
All the well wishes, prayers gestures, and offers for help in our time of need give me much hope in the world we live in. Many of you (other than talking online) are complete strangers, yet you have all come together to help us through our time of need!
THAT my friends is what makes NES a truly special place. One that I am happy to call my home, and folks that I am PROUD to call my FAMILY!
I MEAN THAT!

Thank you all again, I need to go spend some time with my face under open beers!

Thanks again for all the love and support. Know that it is right back at ya!

Adam
 
Excellent, simply excellent.

I'm still gonna keep you and Kim in my prayers. Just in case.

'Cuz, yanno, G-d's a goombah. He listens to his paisans... [wink]
 
Jay G said:
Excellent, simply excellent.

I'm still gonna keep you and Kim in my prayers. Just in case.

'Cuz, yanno, G-d's a goombah. He listens to his paisans... [wink]

Thanks Jay... We do still need the prayers, we still have a couple days to find out weather or not the tumor is a relapse of her cancer, or not...

For now, I'll take the good news...
 
Adam -- great to hear everything went smooth. We're continuing to direct positive thoughts your way for "phase two", which I'm absolutly certain is going to turn out fine. I know what the OR "ringer" is like, after being left in the dark during 4 hours of "OT" when my father underwent a triple bypass 2 years ago and we had no clue what was going on in there.
 
God bless you and Kim and the rest of your family.

Adam_MA said:
For all the new members who may not know...

In October 2004 the love of my life was diagnosed with cancer. It was a long hard rode to recovery with many late night trips to the ER, and some long stays in the hospital. This past December she was declared cancer free, and in remission.

Kim went in yesterday for her 6 month scans, and she received a call from her Oncologist today...

They have found another spot that is questionable. She has to go in today at 12:30 to see her Oncologist, and a new specialist to determine exactly what the spot is, and what the correct course of action.

I am stuck here at work and cannot be with her. My sister has offered to go with her, and hold her hand while she is given the full diagnosis.

I would appreciate any prayers you can send her way. God knows we can use them...[sad] [sad2]

Thank you, and God bless.....
 
Great news Adam, glad to hear everything went well with the op and will keep both of you in my prayers that the recovery will go smoothly.
 
RAWK the F ON!!! Good for her! You knew that she wasn't going to let you off that easy... She was going to make you wait, and wait, and then wait some more. That's why we love them!

I'm happy big guy...for the both of you. Now, just keep us posted on the results from the tests. I'm hoping that it's nothing....and will be sending those vibes to you!
 
That's great to hear, Adam! [cheers]

gotta do the happy dance for you guys... [banana] [banana] [banana]

But if I'd been there I'd have dope-slapped [slap] you for not eating - YOUR job is to keep yourself healthy and strong to support HER while she recovers, and you can't do that if you're not eating. So stop that self-sacrificing noble nonsense and take care of yourself - so you can take care of her.
 
dwarven1 said:
That's great to hear, Adam! [cheers]

gotta do the happy dance for you guys... [banana] [banana] [banana]

But if I'd been there I'd have dope-slapped [slap] you for not eating - YOUR job is to keep yourself healthy and strong to support HER while she recovers, and you can't do that if you're not eating. So stop that self-sacrificing noble nonsense and take care of yourself - so you can take care of her.

Yea, just sneak into the other room and fire down cold bean burrito from Taco Bell you stashed in the fridge the night before...then eat a breath mint.
 
[cheers] [rockon] [banana] [party] [dance]

I'm SOOOO glad to hear that hun. And I guess her heart rate going up when you were whispering to you is proof positive that she's kinda fond of ya. [laugh] Keep us posted luv, and make sure you give her a BIG FAT KISS from all of us!! [smile]
 
Great freakin news Adam! You and Kim are still in our thoughts and prayers, but it sounds like Kim cleared a few hurdles.
 
Thanks again everyone...

I just got off the phone with her and she is resting comfortably. I went down for a few hours today, and she had good color, and she was up and about as well. They said she will most likely be released on Sat.

She is in good spirits, though her head is feeling uncomfortable.

Thanks again!
 
Adam_MA said:
Thanks again everyone...

I just got off the phone with her and she is resting comfortably. I went down for a few hours today, and she had good color, and she was up and about as well. They said she will most likely be released on Sat.

She is in good spirits, though her head is feeling uncomfortable.

Thanks again!
Very cool[wink]
 
MrTwigg said:
The man upstairs was listening!
Considering how many of us were asking for the same thing, why not? He could answer hundreds of prayers with one act! [grin]

All joking aside, I'm glad that this is one time that He was listening.
 
Adam_MA said:
Thanks again everyone...

I just got off the phone with her and she is resting comfortably. I went down for a few hours today, and she had good color, and she was up and about as well. They said she will most likely be released on Sat.

She is in good spirits, though her head is feeling uncomfortable.

Thanks again!

That's awesome, Adam!
 
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