Sounds like you could use a new gym before a gun
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I want to deadlift in peace, not adjust my 1911 then deadlift. If a change of gym is needed I'd do it. Staying in a hostile envioment is asking for it.
I'm partly busting your chops so dont take me too serious. I still think if your in that kind of envioment you'll live longer if you leave then if you stay with a gun. It's alot less stress to avoid that crap then to deal with it the way I see it.
I've worked in I've worked in 6 gyms over the past 9 years, in 3 different states. NY, MA and NH.
It's not the gym, it's the human race. I'm not a cynic, but until you spend up to 16 hours a day, 6 days a week for almost a decade (like I have)in a gym, most people have no idea the types of bizarre behavior that goes on in gyms all over the country!
"Gym affairs" took place in every single gym and state I lived in, which carry with them the concurrent jealous (and often times violent) spouses. Every gym, I don't care where you live in the world, has people selling drugs (either in the gym or on their own time in the community), whether they be pot or steroids, and that lifestlye can carry with it consequences that can prevail at ANY time, ideal for the rest of the law-abiding public or not.
I've worked in very desirable, well-to-do areas, and some that are equal distance from Million dollar homes as they are from low-rent crack houses.
In "nice" area's, there have been people who have threatened our front desk staff that they would be waiting for them in the parking lot after work because they (the member) chose to start a fight about the radio station. People are crazy. Doesn't matter where you live; it only takes one.
Until you spend the majority of your life in a certain place (in this case, a gym), you cannot have a full understanding of what goes on when you're only there an hour or two a day.
I'm not saying that everyone SHOULD or NEEDS to carry every time they go to a gym. In fact, I am only newly licensed myself, and every incident I've described (and the hundreds of others I've forgotten) all happened before I was carrying.
I'm just saying that anything can happen to anyone, anywhere at any time, and it's simply nonsensical to assume otherwise.
new guy said:
Nobody ragged on anybody else carrying anywhere. As far as I can tell only personal opinions/perceptions were stated. And to call it tragic that some people choose not to carry every waking minute of their lives is .
To each his own.
New Guy, as indicated by your name and your post count, you are new here. Maybe I should've clarified my original statement. If you spend enough time here and/or searched the forums, you would see that the topics about carrying at different places has been discussed
ad nauseam. I was simply alluding to the fact that whenever someone asks the best way they can carry at a specific location, it NEVER FAILS that someone, and usually (unfortunately) multiple people ask the obligatory "Why?" instead of offering helpful advice to the OP. Maybe it's me. I thought the whole point of joining a community like this one was for help and support from like-minded people. Sadly, I appear to be mistaken, on more than one occasion. Oh well, C'est la vie.
Furthermore, "tragic that some people choose not to carry every waking minute of their lives is" are your words, not mine.
I'd be more than happy to discuss my opinions and points of view all day long, but please don't put words in my mouth. I take what I say very seriously, so please don't paraphrase my opinions into your own exaggerated interpretations. I never told anyone to carry every waking moment. I simply said "I think it's so tragic that most people will never "see the need" until it's too late...", and that's an exact quotation, not a paraphrase.
That opinion in no way, shape or form says that the choice of individuals to not carry 24/7 is tragic. It just says that most people never see violent tragedies coming, and the million what-ifs that I can only imagine would surround the aftermath of the unimaginable must weigh heavily on those who fell victim to the occurrence.
I've been involved in too many of these "why would you carry there" discussions... Let me ask you one final question:
Why did you join Northeast Shooters? Can I safely assume that you have or are getting your LTC? Do you hunt? Do you want to carry for self defense? Do you just want to target shoot? I'm just baffled why you would question someone else's desire to carry anywhere they are legally allowed to?
Maybe it's just me. But like you've said twice now (and I even quoted your first use in my initial response) "To each his own".
Let's agree to disagree. I can't change your mind, and you can't change mine.
There's a great saying I saw on here that I'll continue to use as a mantra:
"May you always have it, and never need it."
-Jeremy