kevin9
NES Member
Somehow work it out with your wife beforehand. Any other plan leaves an opening for the therapist to inject their own opinions regarding guns which likely will be bad news for you. If you report to the therapist that you've worked out an issue already they'll have less chance to steer the discussion.
Also, have there been any issues that you wish to discuss with the therapist that she has not? If so then you may be able to keep it just between the two of you. If not then, then keeping this issue off the couch so to speak will be tough. Either way work it out ahead of time.
IMNSHO (and IANAT) working issues out together is what marriage maintenance really is. It's not like the two of you taking your car together to a mechanic every 3K miles for an oil change.
Also, have there been any issues that you wish to discuss with the therapist that she has not? If so then you may be able to keep it just between the two of you. If not then, then keeping this issue off the couch so to speak will be tough. Either way work it out ahead of time.
IMNSHO (and IANAT) working issues out together is what marriage maintenance really is. It's not like the two of you taking your car together to a mechanic every 3K miles for an oil change.