It's strange how the internet has turned so many otherwise timid people into bit-based tough guys.
Who are you saying is otherwise timid?
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It's strange how the internet has turned so many otherwise timid people into bit-based tough guys.
Excellent, bravo, truly illuminating.
First thread from which nothing was learned.
At least I figured out that there are people who blindly jump and cowards like me.
Sheesh.
It's strange how the internet has turned so many otherwise timid people into bit-based tough guys.
Before you go all ninja on someone you'd better be damned sure that you are doing the right thing, and your "gut" is the last thing on earth you'd better be using to make the decision to get involved.
No one here is going to stand by and do nothing while someone stomps a little old lady. But in fact it's pretty damned unlikely you're ever going to see that happen. You wanna bust a cap in someone's ass for snatching a purse? Have fun in Walpole. Are you going to go all Rambo and chase the guy down? I'll notify your kids what a hero you were as you died for $200.
If someone sticks a knife in my ribs all of a sudden and demands my wallet he's going to get it. when it's prudent or absolutely necessary to protect myself at the risk of getting stabbed, I'll pull my piece and that will be that (Or I'll be slower than him and die trying).
+1 for using your head and not thinking that playing Jack Bauer is the best way out of every situation.
I got involved once back in 84. A guy was beating the shit out of his girlfriend and she was screaming for help. My 3 friends told me to mind my own business, but the girl was being dragged into a car and she was screaming that he was going to kill her (no shit) We got into it and during the struggle he slipped and landed face first on a curb, damn near knocked out ever one of his teeth. The cops showed up and he was arrested. Several days later I was arrested for assault and battery and had to pay for all his dental work. The chick turned against me and said that they were just having an argument and I got involved. 2 years probation and 3900.00 worth of dental work, The judge even said that he believed it to be BS, but based on the "sworn" testimony of the girl, I was found guilty. Would I do it again?? I'll cross that bridge when I come to it and we'll see what happens
Sounds like the guy went loose and gave her the beating of her life and she "fell in line" with some fake story after that.
For all I know the beater just had a knife pulled on him by a mugger and I didn't see it. Maybe it's two friends who had an argument that's got out of hand. Maybe it's any number of things I couldn't possibly know.
A lot of domestics are also, quite frankly, "f***ing weird" beyond explanation.
For example, there are endless episodes of COPS where the wife called the police on the husband for abuse, and then when the officers show up, she gets
pissed at them for arresting the husband.
-Mike
Cowardice demands you stand back in your safety zone, wait for the operator, wait for the call to be routed to dispatch, wait to give your name..location, wait for the officer with the pen and pad so that you can be a better witness for what just happened.
Had that question run through my head two weeks ago. I was leaving work, and saw the aftermath of a car crash at the exit to my building's parking lot.
The way the snow was piled at the entrance/exit make the turn onto Ballardvale pretty blind, so the girl that was pulling out likely never saw the VW coming at her. Regardless, she was sitting in the driver's seat of the Toyota Matrix, and the VW driver was standing at the point of impact, screaming at her and flailing his arms. She kept the window rolled up, and stared straight ahead. I pulled across the street into the other parking lot and kept my headlights on them. He calmed down, they separated. A couple of tractor trailers blocked the road for them.
Had I seen him start getting violent, I would have called the cops, let them know what was going on, and come out to let them both know the cops were called, and to politely suggest he get back in his car. Had he turned on me, I would have had no qualms with controlling him and setting him back into his car or pinning him to the road until the police arrived to take over.
I think the issue us "call and wait" folks have isn't that we don't want to get all Rambo on someone, it's just that I don't have ESP.
For any specific situation anyone can come up with (male, female, black, white, asian) assaulting (male, female, black, white, asian) there is no way to just know who is the 'bad' guy and who is the victim. Don't forget we all also have our own private prejudices. Make a mistake in such a situation ... and you will have destroyed your whole family.
As a side note, I think it was in the S&W CCW thread there was a case where a wacko pulled over on a highway and as each good Samaritan stopped to help he shot them with a shotgun, but we need to break that out into a different discussion.
Bill
What we have here are people stating that they will not get involved no matter what the circumstance, that the only aid they will render is perhaps a telephone call to 911. Its outrageous to see some of the same voices that complain about crime and community are the same voices that whine when communities begin to falter and police intervention is needed...because no one stood up, no one said anything, no one did anything. Everyone assumed that someone else called 911. Everyones swallowing hook, line, and sinker advice from the AG decrying self help. What has become of you people?
The domestic abuse replies here are horrendous. Yes, we know the odds are 90% that she'll turn on you, yes we know they'll likely work it out on their own, yes we know he may eventually kill her and its her choice. But standing there whistling the hold music while a male who outweighs a female by 70+ pounds slams her against walls and concrete? That just doesn't fly in my book, and I can't apologize for it.
At least some people have a conscience. Some of you are welcome at my table any time.
Even though some sheeple wouldn't show my family the same responsibility, rest assured I'd still help theirs.
It really makes me sick.
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