I agree that the system is rigged and marriage (or any kind of relationship at this point) has turned into a game of Russian roulette. I also believe good people not getting together and reproducing is detrimental to Western society in the long run. With that said, I have to admit I dont have a solution. Western men turning into monks and letting their bloodlines die out is nfw a solution though.
As a collective - I agree with you. The problem is that we each have to make our way thru the world individually. That means that if you keep getting personally screwed over thru your interactions with women - or if your individual ass is going to get destroyed socially and professionally thru interactions with out of control women - then it gets pretty damn hard to make the societal argument about "letting the bloodlines die out".
One of the things I've seen mentioned a number of times in both MGTOW videos and on places like Chateau Heartiste - and in videos by guys like Jordan Peterson and Stephan Molyneaux - is that women start going batshit when they get shut off. The MGTOW guys in and Heartiste in particular point this out over and over again. What women are constantly looking for is attention. Shut them off.
There's an ancient story - I can't remember the specifics - where the women all got together and shut off the men because they wouldn't stop going to war, maybe we need something similar to that but in reverse.