First time poster, long time reader. And by long time I mean about 11 or so months.
I don't often see things that I'm both passionate and knowledgeable about posted (until now!) so I have mostly been just that - a reader.
I'd like to preface this with saying "thank you" because when I read the title to the post by heart sank. But most of what I read here is sarcastic and has the message, "no body cares if you're gay or not these days." I can genuinely say I really appreciate that as I am a lesbian woman and a very strong advocate for the 2nd Amendment.
However, I would like to clear some things up that I see a lot of you and a lot of people in general saying. I understand that some people feel that "the gay agenda" is being pushed on "normal" people. They don't want to see 2 mommies on tv because it forces them to have uncomfortable conversations with their kids or whatever their reasoning. Hey I get it, but the fact of the matter is that this day and age your kids are going to be exposed to it regardless. Would you rather explain it to them or would you rather them, because kids will (it's the no filter thing) ask a random stranger. It happened to me and my wife at our nieces birthday party...
Kid to my wife: "that's a pretty ring, is your husband here?"
My wife (without thinking): "no this is my wife" *points to me who looks like a boy*
Kid to me: "Are you a boy or a girl?"
Me: "I'm a girl who likes to wear boys clothes"
Kid: "So girls can marry other girls?"
Me: "If you love each other that's all that matters"
Kid: "I can see why you like to wear boys clothes, capes are cool" as she runs away to continue playing with the other kids.
The interaction was completely harmless but I immediately was super uncomfortable that I had done something wrong. Is this kid going to run and tell their parents? How were they going to react? Will they be allowed to hang out with my nieces going forward or not because they have gay aunts that may be around some times? The anxiety is sometimes overwhelming but this is the stuff that I have to think about because others want to pretend that gay people don't exist or talking about it is too much of a hassle. Kids don't care, trust me, they take their cues from you. So regardless of who tells them they're going to be exposed to it no matter what. It's up to you who gets to have those kinds of conversations with your kids, personally I would rather it be you because I don't have kids, therefore I'm really awkward and don't know how to explain things in kid language lol.
Now thankfully I live in Massachusetts where the parents didn't care. We went over, apologized profusely and they laughed "why are you apologizing?" But I'm from Florida, and in Florida doing something like that can get you screamed at, or beaten up. Which is why we had to move here in the first place. Because until VERY recently gay marriage, or as I like to call it - marriage, wasn't legal in Florida. Even if I got a marriage license in another state, it would not have been recognized in Florida where I was born and raised.
Which brings me to my next point. I'm sorry that you feel that you were "bullied" into allowing us to have the same rights afforded to the rest of you. However, sometimes when a minority is being overlooked you have to be louder, braver, stronger, and more patient. That is exactly what happened, and I get that some of you are going to cry "BUT CHRISTIANITY" and to that, I'm going to tell you to grow up. If you're so into the Bill of Rights and Constitution, you don't get to cherry pick and skip right over the separation of church and state. Just like you don't get to cherry pick the parts of the bible to live by or not. Plus, marriage was around long before the bible, you guys stole it, you don't get to define it, get over it.
Lastly, the new hot button topic, bathrooms! Seriously, all I have to say is live and let live man. I mean I look like a boy but I have girl parts (and I'm 99% sure I'll get someone asking because they almost always do, yes I want to keep them that way) and I like to use the ladies bathroom. Sometimes I get a double take when I walk in or when I'm washing my hands but for the most part nobody cares. And I don't mind the looks, I get I kinda look like a boy and it can be confusing upon first glance. And again, I live in Massachusetts. When I lived in Florida I avoided public restrooms like the plague because depending on the city or town or mood of some dude or woman or whatever that can get you screamed at or beaten up.
I know that these things aren't your problem and most of you will never have to worry about any of this because you are not gay, nor do are you close enough to someone gay to care. All I'm trying to accomplish by this looooooooong unnecessary rant is so that maybe ONE person will read, and stop to think about someone else's perspective for ONE second.
I am pretty middle of the road when it comes to politics. I wish government was smaller but unfortunately if it was, my family would not really be able to exist in some parts of the country.
I'll NEVER give up my guns not only to fight against tyranny if needed, but to protect myself and my family against any threats that come with being gay (yes I have been physically assaulted solely for being gay, called the cops, cops laughed and said I should've stayed in my side of town). That's when I knew I could only depend on myself for protection.
Again, to the majority of posts on this thread, THANK YOU for being open minded. To the other few, I hope you read this and can maybe kinda sorta see where I'm coming from? If not, I don't care THAT much, I still have my guns to keep me safe and warm.