Please understand a few things about "get togethers" for dinner/lunch:
- We are a geographically diverse group, sometimes we act like we are all in Eastern MA, but we are NOT. We have folks in RI, CT, NY, ME, NH, VT plus a few that are MUCH further away.
- Therefore, no event is going to be in everyone's back yard!
- By jumping around geographically, we get to meet folks that are usually "in that area", build some camaraderie with "our neighbors" so to speak.
- Nobody expects that everyone can make every event.
Marlboro was 1 hour away for me, but I had to be elsewhere trying to recoup money instead of spending it that day. Plus SWMBO wanted to attend a concert here in town (we usually try to attend all of them . . . lack of culture is what drove us out of Groton/New London CT back in 1974, back to the Boston area). We know casually and have heard one of the musicians play before and he and his partner announced that they would be at Chilihead BBQ on St. Patrick's Day evening. We had talked about good BBQ before (I think C-pher talks about BBQ incessantly
) and so I jumped at the opportunity to "do something about it".
So, some of us would love the opportunity to meet Jon/Barb (again in my case) plus some others in the general area of Brockton to Plymouth (maybe Pilgrim?). I don't expect Derek, Sue, Lynne, etc. to travel multiple hours on a Friday night to get to a dinner . . . but we do have a number of folks in this Southeastern corner that can pull this one off.
Someone else will plan something in another location, which will be convenient to another "corner" of our NES community and some will be able to make it and others won't. That is what "real life" is all about.