Exactly!
Its the rare person who takes pure joy just in hurting and killing people and nothing else. They are called serial killers. Your odds of encountering one that picks you out as food are miniscule compared to your average street robber. They don't want a fight, they don't want attention, they are likely willing to hurt you but would rather it go off as quickly and quietly as possible. Am I saying that you should just hand it over and you will be completely safe like the antis imply? NO! Plenty of people have gotten hurt/killed after handing it over.
Post #109 is some of the soundest "street advice" you will ever read. Even if you are not carrying, if you are suspicious of anybody, make them think you have a weapon. I know most probably read post 109 but I can't emphasize this part enough. You are unlikely to be targeted if you are carrying yourself in a confident and observant manner anyways but if you are targeted and give any indication that the playing field is level or tipped in your favor, the perp is going to go elsewhere. This is important since some have restricted LTC's and don't want to break the rules, some work in GFZ's, travel to states where they cant CC or, what is probably the majority of us, can legally carry 24/7 but (admit it) often don't. I strongly advise having a gun but if for some reason you dont and shit goes south, indicate that you have one. Putting one hand in your pocket as you approach a "threat" pretty much screams "gun" to the perp. I'm sure I will piss of some of the overly tactical firearms instructors who say "thats a good way to start a gun fight where you don't have a gun" but the world does not work like that. If the robber has a gun, he is going to be indicating that to you long before you have to start any other tactic.
They might be dumb but they know street body language. Transferring a large item (ie grocery bag) to a different hand screams "I see you and I'm getting ready to fight". Even just talking to the person at a distance can back them off because they are immediately thrust from their perceived position of controlling the encounter. Don't ever take your eyes off somebody approaching you that you deem suspicious, pass them with as wide a berth as possible and turn your entire body to watch them if you have to.
I had a recent situation in Pacific Beach, CA just a few weeks ago. There is a boardwalk along the beach and its generally residential houses backing up to it. Its extremely dark for such a populated place and there are many dark alleys leading to the houses/between the houses, etc. It was about 1130P when I stepped out of my hotel to take a walk down the boardwalk. I was wearing workout clothes and the gun accompanying me on that trip was a Glock 23 so of course it stayed at the hotel. All I had was one of those benchmade rescue knives with the blade, hook and center punch. About halfway down the board walk, I see a guy who seems to have strategically placed himself in one of the very dark shadows, I barely caught his presence from about 50' out. I unclipped the knife from my pocket and held it in my hand such that the little center punch end was sticking out. It could do more damage quick than my bare hands if it came to that. Don't know if he saw me do that.
I'm the only soul on the boardwalk for a good long distance and he is on the "inland" side against a dark row of bushes behind a house. There is a trash barrel right on the seawall directly opposite (10' or so) his position. With NOBODY else anywhere in sight, he waits until I get within about 10' of him to step out in front of me and pretend to throw something in the trash barrel. He times it so he is walking from barrel toward alley just as I would be passing his position. I'm highly suspicious and I even get a little shot of adrenaline, who would step right into somebodies path intentionally when its clear there is nobody for 1/4 mile in either direction? I slowed down as he crossed back in front of me and said "how are you Sir" in a forceful voice, as I got even with him, I started to turn my entire body such that I was square with him. It was awkward for me but I could tell he was even more surprised. He mumbled a bit and kept walking straight down the alleyway. At that point, I'm sure he saw that there was something in my right hand and both of my hands were already in "casual" positions someplace above my waist.
Moral of the story, not everything that is said about avoidance is wrong or anti bullshit. I have no doubt if I had carried myself in a different way, Id have had something bad happen to me that night. I much prefer and highly recommend a good firearm, dont get me wrong but it goes to show that probably 80% of this can be "stopped" without one. No way the guy saw my knife from that far away and I dont even know if he knew what it was when we were within 5' of eachother but he did see me REACT to HIS presence way back, he did see that I acknowledged him before he could me (with a polite greeting no less), as he tried to move past me he saw that I nearly stopped and faced him directly as if waiting for a response to my greeting and he definitely saw at that point that the "something" I reached for back there was now in my right hand. One action probably won't save you from the most determined. I'm convinced this guy was pretty determined to get something over on me that night.
1) I don't look "tough" but I'm in shape
2) I walk confidently and w/head on swivel
3) I reached for and made immediately available to me a weapon
1-3 did not do it for this guy, I'm convinced he had intentions of pulling something until I verbally spoke to him first then turned and started directly into his face as if waiting for a response as he tried to get back behind me. Coming out to "throw something away" was his final way of sizing me up and seeing how I was going to react to him being nearby. Had I dawdled along texting, not paying attention, not looked at him, not said anything, he would have got his way fast. It was not until the TOTALITY of the situation from my early indications that I might have had a weapon to my body language and final posture that he decided I was not a good target. This guy is probably in the "more persistent" category of street robber because most can be deterred a bit easier.
The other key that none of us have mentioned yet is to always shield your draw side and keep the potential aggressor(s) to your other side. But all this advice is correct.