Well it's my fault for not updating the thread. But I've settled on what I'm doing and even have most of the parts. I ended up going with a build because, as has been noted, getting everything was going to be near impossible, and I've gone with a longer barrel 10.5". But I just couldn't make up my mind on 556 or 300............ so I'm doing two, sort of a matched set.
Uppers are BRN-180 10.5" , one in 300blk and one in 223 wylde
lowers are aero procession
KNS Precision Sig stock adapters
both will be getting a Holosun 510C
eventual, after I get the SBR paperwork approved, I'll be getting Sig folding stocks for them.
SBR registration requires you to list ONE caliber, so no you can't just swap uppers to any caliper you want, at least not legally.