A Springfield XDm 4.5" ! I've never seen one. I'd probably need 3 of my sissy hands to just hold it !!What does he have?
As discussed above, something like a G20 is smaller/lighter than e.g. a 1911. Plenty of people carry that every day.
Length Height Width Weight 1911 Government 8.75 in 5.94 in 1.41 in 40.07 oz G20 Gen 5 MOS 8.07 in 5.51 in 1.38 in 29.81 oz