Youth is wasted on the youngIt was fun. I had my first crush down there.
But there was no Thermal Curtain failure, alas.
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Youth is wasted on the youngIt was fun. I had my first crush down there.
But there was no Thermal Curtain failure, alas.
If that had happened to me (not that I traveled solo as a yout)...I’ve flown enough to know that things can happen to cause you to miss your connecting flight and sometimes the next one out isn’t until the next day. You know your daughter, but I wouldn't want a 14 year old who isn’t a really experienced traveler overnighting in a hotel by herself in some strange city.
We are flying our 14 year old daughter to visit her father from SC to Boston.
We went with American because it was a direct flight and they charge a 150 fee to "babysit" which seems like they hold the child until a parent takes over.
The father, purchased the flight home. He went Southwest, which has zero direct flights. They also don't charge the 150 fee, but the kid is on their own. Meaning during the 50 minute layover in Baltimore, she has to find her next gate and board herself.
I know my step daughter, she is not good on her own. My wife and I have put our foot down and said absolutely not to her flying solo with a layover, making his tickets useless right now. I don't care about his finances so I dont care if he is out $.
I'm I being a hovering parent here? Anyone ever let a kid fly solo?
Why? It is simple. Walk off plane, read a board, go to next gate.No way my 14 yo boy or girl makes a plane change solo in Baltimore.
True, but she saw it on a plane (to/from Asia),On the other hand, back when The Bride was on 1/3rd international
travel to the Pacific Rim, she saw a hilarious show on Japanese TV.
this....cuz BALTIMORE lol....it's inside an airport for the love of dog. It's not like she has to walk thru the hood. BWI isn't a huge airport and overly complicated airport.Why? It is simple. Walk off plane, read a board, go to next gate.
I flew solo back and forth across the country in the 80's and 90's with no issue.
I flew hundreds of times and there are some airports where it is not that simple and I have to pay a lot of attention to make sure I don't get on the wrong shuttle. I have even walked 15min to one end of the airport only to find out the flight was changed to the other end. One time I walked out of an airport without knowing and had to go through TSA again. I had to walk all of Miami airport when the shuttle wasn't working (took me 20-30min walking fast) because American landed on one end and LATAM was taking off on the opposite end.Why? It is simple. Walk off plane, read a board, go to next gate.
I flew solo back and forth across the country in the 80's and 90's with no issue.
Bottom line is, trust your gut feeling, keep your stepdaughter safe, and keep yourself sane, everything else is secondary.Thanks for all the replies. I think it is all based on knowing my step daughter and knowing she doesn't do well when given an opportunity to show maturity. 2 months ago, she was at the mall and wanted to go to another store outside of the mall. She called us, asked permission and asked where it was (we are in a new area and we don't know where anything is).
I get on the Google maps and see that it is right next to the mall. I tell her to walk outside, look left, cross parking lot and she is there...... 25 minutes later my wife had to drive there to pick her up and bring her,, because she couldn't find it. This was after me screenshotting maps, and drawing arrows where to go lol.
But her finding the next gate isn't our issue. Its the what if her next flight is canceled or missed. Her being stuck somewhere is where she will not do well.
Last year, I was flying to Vegas. Stop over in TX. For whatever reason, my flight out of CT was delayed 4 hours. Missed connecting flight. The airline then tried offering me a choice to fly to Chicago to get me to Vegas but a possible snow storm could delay me, or fly to CA with a longer layover, but no storm to delay me. Thats the BS we are trying to avoid.
If this guy wasn't such a terrible father, we wwouldn't mind cover the entire trip. The fact that my step daughter doesn't care if she goes or not is another reason we don't cover the whole trip. The fact she is saying she doesn't want to do a layover makes me feel a little better about our decision to say no to him.
I offered to drive to Atlanta, and let her fly into NYC, if he was willing to drive there (thats the closest we could get to him on a direct flight) and he said no, "isn't worth it".
We will see what today brings.
My comment was specific to the Southwest Terminals at BWI. It really is simple.I flew hundreds of times and there are some airports where it is not that simple and I have to pay a lot of attention to make sure I don't get on the wrong shuttle. I have even walked 15min to one end of the airport only to find out the flight was changed to the other end. One time I walked out of an airport without knowing and had to go through TSA again. I had to walk all of Miami airport when the shuttle wasn't working (took me 20-30min walking fast) because American landed on one end and LATAM was taking off on the opposite end.
I was once in Brazil, my wife was flying to meet me there. She was lost in the Newark airport. LOL. She called me, I opened a map of the airport and guided her based on what gate number she saw. And it wasn't her first time flying.
And then there is the issue of flying on a late flight and your connection is the last flight out. You miss the connection and now what?
From what the OP says, I wouldn't be surprised if the father was so cheap that he got the last flight out. Rather than buying an early flight to give her options if something happened.
There arent creeps offering free candy, so that wouldnt be a worry.
Baltimore is a tiny airport and in my experience SWA has great customer service. Dad can likely accompany the minor to the gate and speak with a SWA employee to have her escorted from gate to gate in Baltimore. Kind of like they do with people in wheel chairs. HOWEVER, given OPs assessment of the step daughter's "competency" I might also put my foot down for a direct flight.No way my 14 yo boy or girl makes a plane change solo in Baltimore.
I flew up and drove home 1800 miles to get my son home a week before we were scheduled to fly up for a wedding because he was, well let's just say he needed to be out of there a week earlier than planned. So I flew up and we both drove back (2 vehicles). Had a break down on the way and ended up an extra day on the road. When we got home I flew back to Maine either 2 or 3 days later to go to my brother's wedding. Any parent who doesn't think it's "worth it" to either spend the $ for a direct flight or drive a couple hours to see his kid is a piece of useless shit.Thanks for all the replies. I think it is all based on knowing my step daughter and knowing she doesn't do well when given an opportunity to show maturity. 2 months ago, she was at the mall and wanted to go to another store outside of the mall. She called us, asked permission and asked where it was (we are in a new area and we don't know where anything is).
I get on the Google maps and see that it is right next to the mall. I tell her to walk outside, look left, cross parking lot and she is there...... 25 minutes later my wife had to drive there to pick her up and bring her,, because she couldn't find it. This was after me screenshotting maps, and drawing arrows where to go lol.
But her finding the next gate isn't our issue. Its the what if her next flight is canceled or missed. Her being stuck somewhere is where she will not do well.
Last year, I was flying to Vegas. Stop over in TX. For whatever reason, my flight out of CT was delayed 4 hours. Missed connecting flight. The airline then tried offering me a choice to fly to Chicago to get me to Vegas but a possible snow storm could delay me, or fly to CA with a longer layover, but no storm to delay me. Thats the BS we are trying to avoid.
If this guy wasn't such a terrible father, we wwouldn't mind cover the entire trip. The fact that my step daughter doesn't care if she goes or not is another reason we don't cover the whole trip. The fact she is saying she doesn't want to do a layover makes me feel a little better about our decision to say no to him.
I offered to drive to Atlanta, and let her fly into NYC, if he was willing to drive there (thats the closest we could get to him on a direct flight) and he said no, "isn't worth it".
We will see what today brings.
There was a bus on the flight...that plane must have been hugeI’ve been on flights where we had to take a bus to another terminal, we almost missed our connecting flight.
We did a week of Boston/Helsinki/London/Boston in Jun(/Jul)-92,yes, there are a metric ton of crappy airports where terminals require transport via bus or tram...not so common in the states but pretty common in Europe.