My response was not as accurate as it could have been. You are correct, the bullet weight is irrelevant and not what wears barrels out (it's really the heat and pressure). My bias is towards High Power and we tend to run 22 shot strings with heavy bullets and slow powders. The slower powders are to get better velocities with larger projectiles in the long barrels we shoot. They go together like peanut butter and jelly. That combination (along with sustained string of 22+ shots in about 10~15 minutes) puts a lot of heat into the barrel and generates a time pressure curve that is very unkind to the throat.
However not everyone does that. As an example, I've read reports that Army M24s were getting upwards of 10,000 rounds out of some barrels before accuracy really suffered. I would never get that kind of life out of one of my .308s. I tend to shoot slower powders and longer strings that really heat the barrel up where as the military is using medium weight bullets and medium burn rate powders and not heating them up like I do. What Jose said is correct. There is a guy in Ohio that is using his own cartridge called the 6mm CM that is very much like a .243 Winchester. He is using H1000 with very good barrel life.
Barrel erosion is a fairly complicated thing. There is actually a very good report by the Australian Government's DoD Science and Technology Division, that is hosted on
Dan Lilja's site.
Understanding and Predicting Gun Barrel Erosion. It's interesting if you read past the chemistry formulas and math.
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