I was discussing the trip with my girlfriend, and this point came up. Please bear with me, and I’ll try to explain what I told her.
My mindset was mostly about the business at hand, and that’s why I stood in front of the stage pretty much all day, sign in hand. After a few hours, my legs and feet began to hurt, but I was actively demonstrating, and I wasn’t going to let that deter me. There were lots of NESers around, but I didn’t do much socializing. I mostly just listened to the speakers and participated when that was called for (singing The Star-Spangled Banner, reciting The Pledge of Allegiance, etc.) My point is that even though I didn’t talk to many people, it didn’t seem to matter because there seemed to be a great camaraderie between us nonetheless.
I put my cooler of food and a bag of gifts I’d bought before the event started next to another NESer's stuff, figuring that it was less likely to get stepped on that way. When I went to the Porta-Potty or walked up to the edge of the stage to get a better view of a particularly moving speaker, I never asked the woman there to watch my belongings, but I wasn’t worried. I would not normally leave valuables unattended, but while gathering with these like-minded Patriots from across the country—people who believe in the principles upon which this country was founded—concern that someone would walk off with my stuff didn’t seem necessary.
Before and after the event, I did learn about some of you, but there were lots of others on the bus that I never got a chance to speak with (or at least not very much). I hope there will be other opportunities and want you all to know that I was honored to share the experience with you.
i understand and agree but for me there is another issue. shyness, i know what your thinking, let me just say it's easy to sit here and type. in a social situation i fall apart. if i have seen and talked to you (meaning anyone) a few times before i START to loosen up. it's the actual meeting and getting to know someone that's hard for me. it can take me months/years to fully open up. Now my friend can walk right up to you and act like he has known you for years, i can't. all this makes it seem as if i am rude, a flake, unfriendly etc. i'm really not. and that is why i tend to either not talk to you or say very few words if i do. it is personal, but about me not the other person.