Welcome to the club, Ross. I tell students about a conference I attended down on the cape several years ago. After the meetings and dinner, a bunch of us were spending some time at a watering hole next to the hotel, talking, shooting some pool and throwing back a few. At one point I noticed the little hairs on the back of my neck starting to twitch a little, for no obvious reason. I stopped, looked around carefully a couple of times and finally figured out what had set them off. Without going into the details (which make a better story FTF than in writing) I saw something that had a small potential of turning into the sort of bar room brawl we used to look forward to way back when. Even though I know that whatever happened, I wouldn't be a participant, I decided that I'd rather be back at the hotel. When I got back there, I noticed that two friends of mine, both of whom I'd give 20 to 1 were also carrying that evening, had also relocated themselves within a few minutes of the time I did. BTDT, don't have anything to prove to anybody, and even without the potential legal BS, just don't need the hassle.
Ken