One thing to maybe consider is that there will come a time when even the best state in terms of personal freedom will become oppressive as the socialists and other nutjobs continue to throw this nation off a cliff. So yes it would take longer for the really oppressive laws to reach you personally in a good state like NH or Montana or such but it will come nonetheless. I have no doubt about it, myself. I'm thinking that I would recommend option #1- especially if you do indeed have a close and loving family nearby. #2 won't leave you with much options and the advantages of #3 (less oppressive laws) will diminish as time goes by and you'll still be 3,000 miles away from family. My relatives live 12 hrs drive away, and in Montana (and in Hawaii) and it might not seem like so much but really it becomes an impossible distance once you are really in the situation. Especially when you remember how much of an insult to your dignity airline travel has become, and who has time to drive for days and days.