I am new to the firearms world as well as this forum. I have been poking around the site for a few months and found the information to be very helpful. I am looking for opinionated advice from some members who may or may not have been in a similar situation.
A little background, I am in the late 20's and just recently received my LTC-A (T&H restriction based on the town
). I have had an interesting experience personally as my father used to competitvely shoot and has always owned for home protection, but has never carried since I was born. Growing up I always knew this and also knew that everything was locked up in the safe and it would remain there until the day I approached my Father and said I want to learn. I never thought anything about have any firearms in the house because I know "the rules" and never had a desire to break them. Within the last year I approached my Father and said I wanted to learn and he was very happy to teach me. He took the class with me, we pulled apart his K17 Masterpiece and he showed me the ins and outs, proper cleaning, ECT. Then we went to the range and he tought me all different aspects. He is getting older and we have both enjoyed this experience together.
Naturally this has caused me to have a desire to continue to learn and purchase my own firearm both to continue to practice and for personal/home protection (within the bounds of my restrictions).
Now comes the issue. I have a long time serious (and hopefully future Mrs.) live in girlfriend. I believe when I first started talking about it she expected it would be a situation "this is a idea that will fade and I won't have to hear about it again" of which naturally that did not occur. When I try to talk to her about making a purchase the response is " Nope, I have never been around it, It is not neccecary, the answer is no". I have explained that the intent would be "locked up, but available if needed." There are no kids currently, but explained again that once that time occurs even more precautions will be taken at that point in time. I have offered to take her to the range, put her through the course given locally and the response is still she doesn't agree.
My question is has anyone else had this experience? What did you do to persuade? how did their signifcant other feel after all this was resolved? any advice is greatly appreciated
Thank you