Lets get one thing clear for the OP.
If he buys a red dot scope like the primary arms he linked to or an aimpoint or and eotech he
WILL see the front sight post.
If he uses some kind of magnified optic, the larger diameter of the objective will effectively allow him to see around the post.
So the height of a magnified optic is SOLELY driven by cheekweld and comfort.
The height of an unmagnified dot/holographic/reflex scope must reflect both cheek weld (more accurately jaw weld in this case) and the need to have the dot be at least as high as the front sight post.
Don
p.s. re backup sights. If your gun has a front sight, do this experiment. turn off your dot sight and try shooting by just instinctively putting the front sight post in the middle of the tube. I guarantee you will be able to hit reasonably accurately out beyond 25 yards. Also, lets be real here. I'm a 43 year old IT guy. I don't need backup sights on my ARs. I know I'll get flamed for this but my most likely defensive firearm is a handgun and my defensive AR is a box stock A2 style gun from a tier 1 maker. The rest of them are toys. As such I don't have backup sights on them.
Here is the view through an Aimpoint Micro T1 with the dot off. It makes a very satisfactory aiming platform.
My dedicated .22 AR uses an TRS25 aimpoint knockoff mounted at an absolute cowitness height. I prefer that height because I like to get my head down on the stock.
This is my 10.5" .223 AR with a real aimpoint. It sits higher because I like the dot to be a bit above the front sight. (1/3 cowitness)