Unless the kid has some kind of organic brain/personality disorder, a kid brought up by involved parents can watch all the slasher flicks in the world and play GTA daily and still grow up to be a normal, healthy, well adjusted member of society.
100% agreed, and many of those with said "disorder" were just programmed wrong (by bad/lacking parenting) in the first place...
It all circles back to the same problem - personal responsibility (or lack thereof)...
The Socialist mindset that has been spreading like a disease all over the world in the last 100 years is a big part of it, but mostly because it feeds into a natural tendency toward "laziness" of all organisms including humans (who happen to have the most powerful brain on the planet WRT to coming up with new ways to be lazy).
All organisms strive to maximize function while minimizing effort. It is a basic rule of survival. The more it costs you to acquire that which you need, the more of your time you have to spend doing so... So, animals (and people have specialized, each in their own way, to minimize their "effort".
This is why we can measure "procrastination" even in rodents. It's built into our genes at the lowest levels...
Unfortunately, the short-sightedness of intellectual observation (for most humans/animals) means that big mistakes in jugement can be made by correlative and short-term analysis of result vs effort observations. That is, individuals and groups can mistakenly believe they are making things better only to be wiped out by the long term consequences of their actions... That's how evolution works - it is a subtractive process. It destroys that which does not work, leaving those things that do work.
WRT to kids - the "it takes a village" mentality is code for "someone else needs to raise my kid"...
People on all sides of the political spectrum have abdicated the rearing of their children, because:
1. The system continues to offer more and more opportunity to dump your kids upon the state - whether that's Kindergarten or Juvenile Detention
2. The continual, compounding and exponential destruction of wealth and earning power caused by the Federal Reserve specifically and increased government spending generally have resulted in more and more of our lives spent away from our families working to maintain our perceived "lifestyle"...
That's not to say that people never "worked hard" before, but they generally did it as a family - people had kids to help at home - a process which socialized them and disciplined them...