There's a bare minimum I have to have. On top of that, I make decisions based on how hard it would be to replace the item.
The question I ask myself is...........could this be easily replaced?
This and this, and how sentimental is it. I have guns from my father and uncle that I will hold on to with dear life and pass down. I have other guns that I bought and can't or would be very hard to replace. I have commodity shxt that I can replace anytime.
Sell the commodity shxt first. It won't bring you a lot of money. But it won't bring you pain either.
However, getting out of debt usually requires some pain.....
Im not perfect, and Ive been extremely lucky as we've both kept our jobs and have had good yearly increases. Ive saved a lot of money doing the following...
Live below your means. To save a decent amount of money, I've lived in a smaller house, in a lower tax town, and driven used cars (cars are a horrible waste) , gone on modest vacations every year, dont drink coffee, done my own house and car work, used extras to pay down my mortgage.
Resist keeping up with the Joneses.... The Joneses may drive the nice new car or truck every 3 years, but they are paying an ass load in excise and sales tax to the government to do that. Stupid. Their cars also depreciate 10K after a year. Drive used stuff, take the savings and invest or bank it. You don't need fancy new cars to drive from here to there. If you have no kids or need little space, drive fuel efficient small car.
You can always rent trucks and large SUV's for long trips that happen once or twice a year. Your savings on monthly payment, excise and gas for the small car instead of the larger SUV or Truck will more than pay for it.
Take a look at your cell or cable....dump it...if I was in debt, those would be the first things to go and I'd get a pay as you go cell phone. I rarely used either of these things but pay a lot a year towards them.
And #1 golden rule........never, ever, ever pay interest on a credit card. I have never in my life, ever paid interest on a card. Ive been very blessed to pay all credit cards in full every month.
Credit card interest is fully throwing money in trash. If the money isn't in the bank, don't buy it. Its not worth it. There are emergencies, on say the house or your transportation....but limit it to that, and pay as much down as you can every month til its paid off.
Good luck!