My wife has a 20 year old niece that is not the smartest person I have ever met. She has some mental issues and she has been staying with us on/off for a while and I cannot seem to get honest answers from her about anything.
A few weeks ago, she had a guy drive down to us from Ft Bragg, NC. I believe he is in the Army. I didn't chat with him to be honest. I don't get too friendly with the guys she brings over for us to meet because there is just so many of them.
Long story short, the wife and I knew it was coming, but these 20 year olds that have been dating for a few weeks are head over heels for each other and we just got the call that she is moving up there with him. She told my wife that she was able to live with him in his barracks.
She has nothing to her name. $0 in the bank, heavily in debt and no car, no license, no plan for life.
My question is, are non military allowed to live in the barracks? Are we being fed lies? Are they misinformed? I just want to educate her so she doesn't make a bad decision heading there with him.
She is an adult and can make her own decisions but she needs help and it'll make us sleep better at night knowing she is heading to a decent place to live instead of on the streets to just be near this guy.
A few weeks ago, she had a guy drive down to us from Ft Bragg, NC. I believe he is in the Army. I didn't chat with him to be honest. I don't get too friendly with the guys she brings over for us to meet because there is just so many of them.
Long story short, the wife and I knew it was coming, but these 20 year olds that have been dating for a few weeks are head over heels for each other and we just got the call that she is moving up there with him. She told my wife that she was able to live with him in his barracks.
She has nothing to her name. $0 in the bank, heavily in debt and no car, no license, no plan for life.
My question is, are non military allowed to live in the barracks? Are we being fed lies? Are they misinformed? I just want to educate her so she doesn't make a bad decision heading there with him.
She is an adult and can make her own decisions but she needs help and it'll make us sleep better at night knowing she is heading to a decent place to live instead of on the streets to just be near this guy.