Hey Second A,
I have sat back and seen a ton of your posts, one thing no one can condem you for is your willingness to give info, which in and of its self is not a bad thing, the bad thing is that some of your info has been incorrect. The other negitive thing is you are fast to pounce when your info is called into question or corrected. We all are adults here ( for the most part
) , but more importantly we are all induviduals as well and our ways of talking sometimes do not mix. No one here says that we all need to love each other and hold hands, but to be civil and humane is at minimum, what is needed to have productive conversation.
I know from personal experience, some people here can just rub you the wrong way, for what ever reason, they just get under the skin. Just because you may not like the attitude they project, it should not take away the validity of their information or facts.
Case in point, Scriv, he has a reputation of being sometimes overly shrude, and sometimes tactless in his dealings with other NES'rs
. So be it, his personality still does not negate the facts or validity of the info he is giving. Info he is giving freely, and can be very costly to learn any other way. Sometimes in order to learn, you need to suffer a little, sometimes the message is more important than the messenger or how the message is delivered. You bringing up the fact that he was banned, and then telling him he should be banned again for not agreeing with you in a manner you approve of, is, in my opinion, just not productive, nor was him being banned any of your buisness in the first place. That is between him, Derek, and the Mods, he has paid his debt, what ever it is, and now has a clean slate, leave the past in the past.
I am just trying to give you friendly advice, and am not trying to tell you what to do, you are your own person and will suffer or succeed from your actions. I am sure, you will have a lot to add to many topics here, and as you progress, you will become better equiped to deal with the little querks here on NES.
Just take your time, read your posts before posting them, don't be so fast to hit enter. We don't need to agree on everything, and walking away is sometimes the best way to get the point across, even if they don't.
Best wishes, and good luck
.