I actually really like my Bodyguard. I carry it frequently, with MagGuts +1 springs/followers in the mags and a set of tritium sights. My lighter/smaller carry guns also include a Shield, J frame 438, and a Seecamp.
The Kahr would be a great option. I don't like the sights on the LCP, but it may not matter much if you are in a situation where you have to use it (besides, I can't complain about sights when the Seecamp doesn't have any). A Seecamp and NAA Guardian are going to be heavy compared to any polymer gun. The J frame isn't for everybody.
Don't listen to online "wisdom" about the Bodyguard. It's colored heavily by the early purchasers who got guns that were truly terrible. I'd never buy a first gen gun with the original laser. Go to a shop and play with the M&P version without a laser and see if you can get the hang of the trigger (it'll smooth out with dry fire practice and the Galloway kits are good). If you like it, go for it. It's a bit smaller, thinner, and lighter than most of the other options, so if you really want to pocket carry, it could be the right choice.