Electrical Engineer here, so I am familiar with EMP, it's effects and how its effects would affect our lives.
1) EMP dissipates as the surface area expands (square of distance). Most EMP developments so far have been localized (typically 10s of meters. 100s of meters for Nuclear Weapons)
2) the EMP effect on an item depends on the surface area of the pulse intercepted and the energy in the pulse at that area.
3) EMP causes a massive electrical energy surge by inducing current into conductive materials, this surge causes damage to electronics (much like a lightning strike).
4) A Continental US EMP event capable of disabling the power grid would require extensive amounts of energy. - The "back-bone" of the grid is capable of handling more 1,000,000V @ 1,000A or a Billion Watts of power, but the backbone cables are also hundreds to thousands of miles long.
5) For 3 EMP bombs blanket the US with enough EM energy to "fry" the system, each would need an effective range of about 1,000km, more than a million times the EMP energy released by the Heroshima.
At 1,000km, it takes 3 Trillion Watts to project 1W / m^2. That's 1mW of energy delivered to a 1mm diameter 1m long antenna.
Now, the more likely senerio would be for some much smaller (say 1km range EMP devices) located near sensitive infestructure points intent on disabling, say - the Power Grid "back-bone" - This would fry the power grid and shut down the national power distribution system (small local power distribution systems may be able to get back up in running in a few days to several weeks, but national power would be down for MONTHS. Local broad-cast equipment near the EMP site would be trashed with the effect dropping off in a radial pattern from the site. Small portable electronics distant from the site would be largely uneffected with the less soffisticated devices being the least likely to be damaged (Incandecent flashlights are much less sensitive to EMP than LED lights. Metal cases shield flashlights VERY well though) Aside from power distribution and broadcast equipment, most electronics would not be affected past a few kilometers.
As for the Ballistics Anti-Missile System, other than nuclear weapons, no EMP device capable of this level of damage is physically small enough to be delivered by a ballistic missile. It's a problem of energy storage. To get the trillions of joules of energy you'd need you'd need either Massive Mass and Volume or access to the sub-atomic energy stored within the material.