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Start building an AR on your dining room table one night. Let her make the move.
Wife never had any anti issues, just didn't like handling them and wanted them locked up, and finally convinced me to get a proper safe, which promptly met its capacity.
As far as the money part, one point I made with my wife is that guns = money. Purchasing a firearm is not like buying new shoes or a manicure, it is more like making a deposit into savings, which can be enjoyed now and passed on to the kids, or liquidated if times are hard.
In order to have co-access to this "account
And they know this, That is why they do it.
wow, that is the one of the saddest things i have ever heard. to find your wife, the one you love, has betrayed you so badly. Its almost as bad as coming home and find her doing five mexican lawnworkers in your bed.
the correct response would have been to buy a good safe, and fill it full of the nastiest guns he could find. and every weekend, go to the range and spend the day shooting there. take the kids shooting every time he went.
That story just SUCKS.
Nothing against you.
Its just a bad, sad, and suck story....
If she wants to be nasty, all she has to do is a simple call to the cops (911) saying that you are crazy, have guns in the house and that she fears for her safety. Cops come, yank your LTC and take all of the guns to the police station. The next phone call is from the cops to the Dowd extortion warehouse and your guns are history! If there is any kind of domestic conflict and you value your guns, store them someplace else that she does not know about.Honestly, I was surprised I didn't get a call from him saying he needed help getting rid of her body. Out of all his dads crap it was the one and only thing that was important to him. He was gutted for quite some time over it and lost all interest in ever going to the range.
If I was him the story would have ended with "and then the cops came" and I'd be typing this on my free computer and internet service from prison(at least then I'd have health coverage).
Didn't mean to be a downer, just don't want to see the same thing(or a variation of) happen to the OP.
Offer to send her to a class -- NOT with you in attendance. The one thing most woman hate is looking foolish in front of loved ones. If she's trying something new and is uncertain about it, she's not going to want you there to see the baby steps. Once she's dancing, she'll dance with you, but until she learns and is comfortable, no dancing for you.
Offer to send her to a class -- NOT with you in attendance. The one thing most woman hate is looking foolish in front of loved ones. If she's trying something new and is uncertain about it, she's not going to want you there to see the baby steps. Once she's dancing, she'll dance with you, but until she learns and is comfortable, no dancing for you.
At the end of the day, women are all the same. They all come up with the same bitching. "Stop drinking", "get a job", "stop buying guns", "get off of my sister"... Same ol same ol.
^^best piece of advice in this entire thread.
the remaining 14 pages of this thread are primarily macho jockey bullshit.
Start building an AR on your dining room table one night. Let her make the move.
Good advice, but the rest of us aren't necessarily wrong. Its one thing to have a someone who just isn't into guns, that's not entirely abnormal, but the ones who are absolute freak shows about it are not usually salvageable. There's a big difference between the two. Often times this serves as a good smoke test, as usually its not even about the guns, the freak shows don't like the fact that their gravy train is being disrupted even a little because their partner has a new hobby.
If she wants to be nasty, all she has to do is a simple call to the cops (911) saying that you are crazy, have guns in the house and that she fears for her safety. Cops come, yank your LTC and take all of the guns to the police station. The next phone call is from the cops to the Dowd extortion warehouse and your guns are history! If there is any kind of domestic conflict and you value your guns, store them someplace else that she does not know about.
My oldest son (now a practicing lawyer) was brought up around guns and shooting.
He tells me over dinner the other day "I think that the only people that should have guns are police and the military. No one else needs to own them"
Then I told him he needed to go to MFS for a range session....
If I was having diner with someone who told me that the meal would be over and I would leave or tell them to leave.
He needs to do some range time to break down the opposition.
Well, there's lots of good advice here, as well as a boatload of masculine posturing. Here's a woman's POV:
You may have to accept the fact that having guns and having this particular girlfriend are mutually exclusive. Hope that doesn't turn out to be the case, but it could, so start thinking about it.
Start by purchasing a gun safe. We got a decent one cheap at Wal-mart (with free delivery). Once your GF sees that a) you're serious about this, and b) you care enough to spend money on something other than actual guns, she may begin to re-consider her antipathy.
Offer to send her to a class -- NOT with you in attendance. The one thing most woman hate is looking foolish in front of loved ones. If she's trying something new and is uncertain about it, she's not going to want you there to see the baby steps. Once she's dancing, she'll dance with you, but until she learns and is comfortable, no dancing for you.
Someone above suggested archery; that's also a brilliant idea.
Someone above suggested she get some of her girlfriends to go shooting with her, but as was noted, she probably doesn't have any shootin' friends.
If you're near the Cape and can persuade her, I'll be glad to take her to my club and let her shoot some of my 22s. The long guns are super easy to shoot, and accurate as well; once she starts hearing the CLANG! as she hits the targets, she might actually begin to relax and have some fun. Just let me know.
All that said, if she accepts your "hobby" and decides she can live with it, she may decide that she wants a hobby of her own. Be ready to support her MORE than she is supporting you on this issue. It's little things that make a relationship work, and if it does work, things like this tend to even out over time.
Best of luck.
Just go buy the gun. Don't let her problems become your problems
I did share my expertise with the OP, I told him not to be like you.
I'm not going to post proof for you because that's what you want. I rather string you along while myself and the people on here that know me, have a good laugh at your expense