Agreed - I can't stand crossbolt safeties and never use them. We were forced to use them during Appleseed and it sucked. Safety location is one of the reasons I got a 500 instead of an 870, along with it having a far superior shell lifter design that stays up and makes loading much easier. Plus my 500 cost me $230 and I never have to deal with Remington's garbage customer service or recent quality hickups.
Not all Remingtons are created equal. How about an 80's Police when they were built on their own line?
I've heard great things about the older Remingtons, yes. Still no Mossberg, imo, because of some of the things I mentioned previously.
Police 870s, Wingmasters and Express guns all use the same safety so buying an older one (which I always suggest) won't fix the safety issue. Personally though I never care too much about the safety on any gun unless it's a decocker. I hate decockers and I won't buy a gun with a decocker ever again.
The only safeties I've actually liked and appreciated on guns are the standard AK safety, the Lee Enfield safety and the safety on my Browning Hi Power. Crossbolt safeties are neither here nor there for me.