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Sex in the office question

Discussion in 'Off-Topic' started by jkelly1229, May 22, 2019.

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  1. jkelly1229

    jkelly1229

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    So we caught one of our directors having sex at the office. Saturday afternoon

    He left a condom on a co workers desk, we went back reviewed the tapes caught them going into the office him coming out without pants on shortly (too quickly) after. And putting pants on. He locked himself out of his office thats how the condom got left

    Aside from his excuse nothing happened lol.

    Nothing happened from a punishment perspective.

    I personally think he should be fired and so does most of the rest of us.

    What does nes say?

    Edit not hot either. Not bad but not hot.

    Consentual and can't tell if its another employee or not.
     
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  2. M1911

    M1911 Moderator NES Member

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    I'd have walked him out the door then and there.

    Oh, and the obligatory question: was she hot?
     
  3. Caveman

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    I’d have fired him.
     
  4. Bob P

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    Terminate.
     
  5. buckfarack

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    Perhaps for being stupid enough to leave a condom on a co workers desk... have you checked the tapes prior to the incident? Perhaps it wasn’t an isolated incident. If you’re looking to get rid of him it wouldn’t hurt to have as much ammo as possible. In general, this would be a firing offense at most companies.
     
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  6. kalash

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    Was this co-worker the "partner" or someone completely unrelated?
     
  7. Fritz the Cat

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    I say no, making two assumptions :
    1) the sex was consentual
    2) it was not during office hours
    a) if he was on the clock, does the employee handbook state one must drink coffee during a coffee break?
     
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  8. jkelly1229

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    Lmfao no, because the desk the condom was left on was my desk up until about a week and a half ago. I'm scared of the answer.
     
  9. M1911

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    Wouldn't make any difference to my judgment. Sex at the office is grossly inappropriate and opens the company up to huge possible sexual harassment liability.

    If you want to have sex with a co-worker, go to a hotel and get a room. And it damn well better be someone who doesn't report to you.
     
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  10. new guy

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    How bad does the business need him?
     
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    In a corporate environment it's an immediate canning.

    And as a side comment, seriously you leave the condom behind? Douche move.
     
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    promote him, but advise caution on where he leaves used condoms
     
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    They're being paid to work. I would fire both of them.
     
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    Dude's got to go. Even if he picked up the condom, still woulda left splooge on your desk, unbeknownst to you.

    Probably not the first time.
     
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  15. kalash

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    Oh, I'd fire him either way. I'm just curious if there's a third coworker who is really disgusted and REALLY pissed off!
     
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    Why’s he leaving his office with no pants?
     
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    was this Bill Clinton?
     
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  18. jkelly1229

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    He locked himself out... f***ing hilarious on camera.
     
  19. jkelly1229

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    I don't know. He was walking around our sales floor with his junk out shorts in hand.
     
  20. MisterHappy

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    On the 16 yard line, shootin' for the Lewis!
    Done.

    With the current environment, an off-hand comment can get the lawyers on the march.

    Oh...did I say, "Done."?
     
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  21. Boris

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    lol, so much hate for office sex.

    I dare you to bring black light and look at your desk [hmmm]
     
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    Considering the women in my office, I'd be more impressed than horrified.
     
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    Back in the 80's I worked as a consultant at a high tech place that shall remain nameless. Most of the secretaries were smokin hot and seemed to have a thing for engineers. Let's just say that I was happy that the copy room had a lock on the door!
     
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    Was this a dream sequence?
     
  26. Boris

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    GTFO! ... may be if engineers made a whole lot more back then, not today cubicle slaves.

    I did enjoy working downtown in the financial district, good show, makes working easier and harder.
     
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    At a minimum they should be put on a performance plan and it noted in their records.

    Was the other person a subordinate?
     
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    Why nameless come on out with it

     
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  29. Broccoli Iglesias

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    So, you got caught having sex in the office? [smile]

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    Someone like this guy, either makes a lot of stupid calls at work or is one of those dudes that is so full of himself and thinks he is so great that he makes bad calls.

    This could be the perfect opportunity to get rid of him.

    Or, if he is a good worker but you dont want to promote him and want him to quit, just promote someone above him and make sure his career is stalled.
     
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    Aren't we supposed to consider the hotness of the female involved before making a decision?

    I wouldn't fire him for the sex, just for the doing it on someone else's desk and leaving behind the sticky evidence.
     
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