revisiting on death gun bequests please...

I've touched on this before but let me get it straight. on my death, I have a pistol I want to give to a good friend of mine. the prior owner handed it down to me when he was close to passing. I don't have a will and don't plan on making one soon until some financial blunders I've made correct themselves. can I write a notarized letter stating what I want to do and give a copy to my buddy, keep a copy with the gun and put one where it would be be found upon my death? I'm just not ready to let go of the gun just yet or I'd do the obvious thing and just transfer it now. I'm trying to let the vultures know that particular pistol is off limits when the expected safe raping begins. what do you think? and no, I'm not expecting to expire anytime soon.
Just get a will, POA, HC Proxy and as others have indicated have a list of where you want things to go.

One more really important thing, have an executor that you KNOW will follow your wish's. Because ultimately they are going to be dividing up your stuff. Your main assets and real estate are usually not problematic because that is easily contested if not followed. But the small stuff (like your pistol) that lies in the trust of your executor.

Believe me I know, my Mother had an executor that did not follow here wishes on some semimetal items and I lost out.
 
Just get a will, POA, HC Proxy and as others have indicated have a list of where you want things to go.

One more really important thing, have an executor that you KNOW will follow your wish's. Because ultimately they are going to be dividing up your stuff. Your main assets and real estate are usually not problematic because that is easily contested if not followed. But the small stuff (like your pistol) that lies in the trust of your executor.

Believe me I know, my Mother had an executor that did not follow here wishes on some semimetal items and I lost out.
thanks, good advice from you and others. the proposed executor is the guy getting the pistol on my death.
 
... my Mother had an executor that did not follow here wishes on some semimetal items and I lost out.
Written in the will?

My affairs are set up so that NOTHING goes thu probate. I've already signed the title to my truck. Jack.
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If you want to really get back at someone after you are gone, make them the executor of your estate
No kidding! BTDT twice and have the bills and scars from dealing with all that.

And now >30 yrs later the MA SOS wants me to visit the probate court and get "re-appointed" to lay claim to ~$25 in "Found Mass Money" in my late Father's name. No way in hell, the state can keep the money.
 
No kidding! BTDT twice and have the bills and scars from dealing with all that.

And now >30 yrs later the MA SOS wants me to visit the probate court and get "re-appointed" to lay claim to ~$25 in "Found Mass Money" in my late Father's name. No way in hell, the state can keep the money.
And the bastards would probably charge you a $50 "fee". Last time I renewed my DL, I told them to take off the $15 MC thingy. They said that they would do it for $15. Jack.
 
I’m coming up on 61. Two friends that I grew up with nearly my whole life dropped dead where they were standing. Each was a year in front and behind me.

I knew a few of the guys on the rescue that whacked the younger with every damn drug they had on the truck.

Click. Click. Silent. Don’t forget it.
God I hope that is how I go like that. Beats years of suffering.
 
God I hope that is how I go like that. Beats years of suffering.
Me as well but not so young. I watched my father take his last breath at home in his own bed because that’s what he wanted.

My wife’s father got up from bed and dropped like a rock a few months ago.

One friend went down the stairs from the top at home. The other got out of his truck and it was over.
 
I'm in the same situation.

What will the kids think when they discover my Flesh Light?

If I get rid of it now, I wont be able to enjoy it anymore.

If I keep it - it will be found.

I already have a solution for my online porn collection.

It's called a "Dead Man's Switch".

If the police knew about all my amputee midget porn - they would throw away the key.

Regarding the Flesh Light - those darn things get worn out so quick.

When this latest one deteriorates - I'll cancel my discounted subscription / warranty / replacement plan.

Darn thing makes my wife jealous, anyway.
 
That’s half the reason I’m not getting a prenuptial agreement.. It doesn’t make a f*** of a difference. So I have to buy myself and her a lawyer to get some documentation that states no matter what happens I have to buy myself a lawyer and get her a lawyer…. These lawyers are good that’s all I can say..

I’m with reptile on this one we’re gonna have to sue the fleshlight company. Class action lawsuit
 
Me as well but not so young. I watched my father take his last breath at home in his own bed because that’s what he wanted.

My wife’s father got up from bed and dropped like a rock a few months ago.

One friend went down the stairs from the top at home. The other got out of his truck and it was over.
My brother started his day the same way for years. Turn on the coffee maker, light a Camel, sit down and do 3 bong hits, go pour a cup of coffee.
His last day, he died on his way back to the kitchen to pour his coffee.

He always said that was how he wanted to go. Flip the switch. Lights out.
At first I was devastated, but then realized he died exactly the way he wanted to go.
 
My brother started his day the same way for years. Turn on the coffee maker, light a Camel, sit down and do 3 bong hits, go pour a cup of coffee.
His last day, he died on his way back to the kitchen to pour his coffee.

He always said that was how he wanted to go. Flip the switch. Lights out.
At first I was devastated, but then realized he died exactly the way he wanted to go.
It’s a lot better than suffering in pain for a year or more knowing you’re going broke only to pay for keeping you alive feeling like shit.
 
It’s a lot better than suffering in pain for a year or more knowing you’re going broke only to pay for keeping you alive feeling like shit.
man, so right! i've just now this year realized that when you hit a certain age, doctors just do maintenance to keep you going and very little to make you feel better.
 
man, so right! i've just now this year realized that when you hit a certain age, doctors just do maintenance to keep you going and very little to make you feel better.
You need to go to better doctors. Or, get more involved in your care. . .
 
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