I just have no sympathy for those who complain about the rules at their club.
If you don't like the rules, get involved in the club. Go to the meetings. Volunteer at work parties. Run for election. Chances are most work at the club is done by a very small number of people who would welcome an extra set of hands. Chances are they have openings in the leadership and no one is stepping up to run for open seats on the board.
The rules at the club were written by people, people who were well meaning and spent time to try to do the right thing. I know you think you know better. Maybe you do, maybe you don't. Chances are you don't know the history of why the rules are they way they are. So get involved and help.
At my club, concealed carry was not allowed on club property. I didn't bitch about it online. I didn't bitch about how it was a stupid rule written by "fudds". Instead, I got involved. I went to meetings. I went to work parties. I became a board member. Then I became a club officer. I asked the executive board about the rule, how it came about, why I thought it could and should be changed. It took several years and multiple attempts. It wasn't until a particular old-timer left the board that I was able to get that rule changed.
The way I got the rule changed was that our range rules were out of date. The executive board recognized that, but no one had taken the lead to rewrite the rules. Instead of just bitching about it, I rewrote the rules and brought a draft to the executive board for review. It took a lot of work with the executive board to reach consensus. That involved a lot of compromise. Are the resulting rules everything I wanted? No, that's the nature of compromise and working with others. A few years later, we rewrote the rules again.
If you think the rules at your club should be changed, then get involved and work to change them. It will take diplomacy, hard work, persistence, and compromise.