At this point, I just don't want to waste my time driving almost an hour to this FFL only to find out they won't do the transfer. Though I guess falling back to a standard private transfer via the E-FA 10 portal would be the worst case scenario.
If the seller didn't do this homework (to make sure its OK) then you should neg them in itrader, I'll just leave it at that. (unless you were the one responsible for picking the FFL).
-Mike