Every time I see a post in relation to this on facebook, I can't help but get choked up. BJ, I can't even begin to imagine what this is like for you and your wife. I'm sure you know but there are hundreds of people who would and will do whatever they can to help you in the days, weeks, months and years as this goes on. I hope for the both of you that this gets easier and with time you are able to hurt just a little less. Stay strong man.