richc
NES Member
all i know about my future retirement - i am trying to do my best to pay off my mortgage. which may be severely jeopardized by both kids going to college.
and samples of many people i know having to feed and support their kids coming back from college with no work prospects and no desire to work or live on their own.
I know cases where that has happened. I know cases where the kids just started their new lives.
My son entered the Army after college and got some world class training and skills. He got a masters last year from Johns Hopkins and is now working on his MBA, both while working full time. My middle child got her masters while working full time. My oldest was a marketing manager at a high tech company until motherhood. None of the lasted more than a few months at home after college.
There's a lot of kids who are willing to take names and kick ass. My son's BFF's all have advanced degrees. I met a group of them at Foxwoods to play some blackjack last year. Two of them had MBA's from Kellog and Booth. One had his CPA. My son had his masters. I was by far the least education of the bunch. And these are sharp young men who are all about 30 years old. I loved chatting with them.
The MBA's were knuckleheads in college with my son. In the frat. And now they're making bank, one at a defense contractor and the other at a high end management consulting company. The CPA got his foot in the door of an accounting firm that is a watchdog for the government on classified projects. He loves his work. They all do.
There are kids who have their eye on the prize. And, yes, I agree there are those that want everything handed to them.
It's just what the young folks want to do with their lives. The opportunities are out there.