you didn't miss anything. 99% of "dorm" parties are a bunch of kids away from home for the first time trying to fulfill what they think is a college right of passage involving drinking crap beer (which is likely warm because it was snuck in), playing beer pong, drama, everyone coming up with stupid ideas of where else they could go for the night....I went to maybe 2 (I transferred into a new college as a "freshman" after going to CC to get early stuff out of the way) before I realized that it was boring..I'd rather go to the library or stay at work and earn a couple more $$.I was a freshman in college at 21; started after the Army. When some of my classmates found out I was of drinking age, I was invited to all sorts of dorm parties. Monday would come around and was asked “why didn’t I show up?” Told them I was too old for dorm parties and I was at a bar. They stopped asking after awhile.