Not to hijack the thread, but when is FCS open? Every time I have driven by it has been closed. (No, I didn't always drive by at midnight or anything like that.
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It's been probably 3-4 years since I stopped by and found it open. I'm rarely in that area, but 2 or 3 other times I stopped by during a workday, the place was closed. No idea if he keeps posted hours or not. I guess calling and asking directly would be smart, but I don't think I'd want to leave anything locked up there, I just don't get a warm and fuzzy feeling that I could get it out when I might want to do so.
Ok, well one guy said it pretty directly, but I'll just ignore him.
There's been plenty of good advice on here and lots of sensible strong arguments (most of which I agree with). But when someone says basically "fix her or the relationship ends" is not setting himself up for successful relationships.
I've stayed out of this up until now.
From my personal experience:
- My Wife was totally anti for many years. A chat with a Texan working the gun counter at Herman's Sporting Goods (back in the mid-1970s) somehow tripped her and she said "OK, if you want ONE!" [Some years later she would gently remind me that she said "ONE!"
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- I joined a local club that was very active at that time. We had a couple of family parties/year and she always went. She liked the people, but still no interest in guns. I INSISTED that she get her LTC as an "emergency backup" and we were friends with our police chief so it was painless.
- 12 years ago I joined Braintree R&P and used to go on Sunday mornings (they serve breakfast, except in Summer), have breakfast, sit and read while I shot. She met lots of really nice folks. Still no interest.
- Second Amendment Sisters ran an all-day shooting orientation event and suddenly she announced that she wanted to attend. I stayed home not to poison the water, so to speak. She came home all excited, loved it, a reporter from Ch. 7 attended, did some shooting and reported about it (all positive) on the evening news.
- She decided to join Second Amendment Sisters (SAS) and attend their shoots (3rd Sat each month). After a short while she expressed interest in shooting with me instead of SAS and it's been like that ever since. One day she decided to join BR&P and has been a member ever since.
- I worked the GOAL table at gun shows for many years. Suddenly she decided to join me in working the table. On the way home she asked about joining GOAL, so I called Nancy Snow and bought her a GOAL Sustaining Membership.
- She decided to go with me to Four Seasons and buy a few guns of her own. I now use her .38Spl revolver to train people to take the Moon Island (Boston) range test. She was very surprised at the procedure we have to go thru to buy a gun.
A lot different than what is portrayed on the daily snews (her only other exposure to this).
- She's firmly entrenched as a pro-2A person now. When I got one of those $300 NRA Life Membership offers for friends/relatives, she insisted that she wanted one, so she is now also an NRA Life Member.
The above process took over 30 years, but I never forced her to do anything (other than get the LTC). A very slow process to change a person's perception, but definitely worth it. She attends almost every NES event with me . . . and the only reason she doesn't attend the Shoots anymore is that the excessive noise bothers her ears (our audiologist tested her and she still has the hearing of an 18 yo, meanwhile I wear a hearing aid).
YMMV