I was at the rally on 7/20 in MA, was interviewed, named and published as saying "I will not comply with the 'interpretation', guess I'm a felon." I've been to other rallies, unfortunately can't make this one as I just (a month ago) started a new job and quite simply can't afford the trip. Well, not and keep the mortgage paid...
Regardless... Perception matters. If you want to be perceived as a thug, dress and act like one. If you want to be perceived as a skank, dress and act like one. If you want to be perceived as a "gun nut", dress and like one. If you want to be perceived as a sober, rational person, dress and act like one.
Like it or not, first impressions MATTER. Perceptions MATTER. You may be the nicest, gentlest, best educated guy in the room, but if you show up wearing dirty jeans, a wifebeater and engineer boots you'll be judged before you open your mouth. Your daughter may be sweet, respectful, and have three doctorates but if she's wearing daisy dukes, a tight tank top and stilettos guess what people are going to see. PERCEPTION MATTERS.
There's a pic of a guy being shot in the head on the street in Vietnam, was in a thread not long ago. It became an iconic view of the Vietnam War and shaped PERCEPTION for decades. But it was a snapshot out of time, and taken out of context it's horrifying. The REALITY is somewhat different, but the PERCEPTION is what people remember.
The VCDL folks have been doing this a while and it's been working. Bloomberg spent a shit-ton of money and flipped the script. These folks need a little time to show people the reality. Showing up to help is good. Bodies count. Showing up to rant doesn't. Body counts suck.
@Warm_Garand when virtually EVERYBODY tells you you're wrong, the grownup thing to do is take a beat and see if just maybe you erred. Doubling down on rhetoric is the liberal way, and sexist misogynistic labels just aren't heplful. I agree wholeheartedly with your frustrations, but the PERCEPTION is that you're acting like a jackass. Not ARE one, ACTING like one.