So, still mulling this over and really thinking about what I need vs what 18 year old Carl in CT would get vs what I can reasonably justify in the budget. This is a long rambling update but I am hoping this may even help others think through what they might want so forgive me.
I'm pretty much giving up on the idea of one jack-of-all-trades knife. I have always looked for that sort of thing in tools, knives, even guns at times and the result is too often something that does many things so-so but nothing well. Getting a little tired of always having to settle for that because I'm too cheap or impatient to save up to get the right tools for the job. This time I am willing to wait to get knives I will really like and do their jobs well.
So I am thinking of what I really need. The days of disappearing into the woods for days at a time and building shelters, cutting trails, etc are pretty much over for me. The occasional camping trip sure but serious wilderness exploring, prolly not. So I don't need a top of the line bushcraft knife but I'd like one that can do some decent bushcrafting like making feather sticks, shaving sticks for tinder, cutting notches, processing food, as well as general utility around the yard/barn, etc. A 6" knife like the ESEE 6 can do that stuff but is not necessary or ideal, especially if the blade is really thick. So I am looking more at 3-4" blades.
I thought the ESEE 3 or 4 would be great but the reviews say the stock scales suck for large hands, which I have. Plus I don't like the stock sheath. To upgrade to extended G10 scales and a nice leather sheath gets pricey, about $145. Out of my original budget but I may be willing to stretch a little for the right knife. This is the stock ESEE 3.
ESEE also makes a 3 and 4 HM models which are much more traditional bushcraft knives with much better scales, no finger choil or jimping and a traditional bushcraft style leather sheath all for $100. That is a great choice but not good for batoning wood (not that I see myself doing a lot of that but a little) or other heavier tasks and it loses pretty much any tactical points that the standard ESEE 3 and 4 have (not a big deal for me). The 4 is pretty much identical but with the 4" blade instead of 3".
So what about when I want to go a little deeper into the woods and I want something bigger that can do some chopping and other heavier tasks. ESEE and many others make big knives for that but they are expensive. I have been looking at the Becker BK9 for that for around $95. Obvious I am blowing my original budget out of the water on multiple knoves but like I said, I will wait and get these knives one at a time while I save my pennies. It's a 14.75" beast with a 9.25" blade that seems like it's half machete and half axe and can do some serious chopping, batoning and other large tasks.
For my eventual EDC knife I figure a RAT 1 or 2 will be great at around $30-$40. All together I would be spending around $220, about double my original budget. I can swing it I just have to be patient but I think I'd be happier in the long run.
Any who actually made it through this post have any thoughts. BTW, I have looked at the ones guys have suggested and seen some reviews on some of them. The Gerber Strongarm seems to be a really great knife for around $50 if I decide to go back to the original plan/budget.